I’m not doing a “thankful for my coffee and my grind” post. Today I am aggressively, unapologetically thankful for the boring, un-Instagrammable stuff that actually keeps my life from catching fire. My SNAKs (well, where did you think I would go with this TODAY?):
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I am grateful I have skills that translate into $$$. Not “I followed my passion and the universe provided,” but actual competencies that equate to money in my bank account. Today industries pivot while you are still updating your LinkedIn headline, having a stack of skills you can redeploy is not cute… its survival. If your skills vanished tomorrow, how fast would your peace disappear with them?
A NETWORK that supports me:
I am thankful for a network who:
- Say my name in rooms I am not in
- Forward the job, project, or panel invite without making it weird
- Check in when I go too quiet
If you think you are “not a networking person,” that is adorable; you’re still in a network. The question is whether it works for you or only for everyone else.
ACTIVITIES that keep me sharp and alive:
I am grateful for the work and hobbies that sharpen my brain instead of numbing it. Writing, learning, building, teaching. The actions that grow, stretch, and occasionally scare me a little are the ones that keep peace from going stale.
KNOWLEDGE that I can keep moving forward:
I am thankful that I know how to learn. New tools. New industries. New regulations. New versions of myself.
Knowledge is not a certificate on your wall. It is the quiet confidence that, whatever happens, you can figure it out without completely unraveling.
And my HEALTH… the non-SNAK plot-twist… this one is NOT sentimental for me. My health struggles have eaten a large chunk of my adult life. So, I am deeply grateful to have days where my body cooperates. Where I can show up to my work, my people, and my own ambitions WHOLE.
It is very easy right now to let the world shred your peace.
Global chaos. Work chaos. Personal chaos.
You cannot control most of it.
You do control how fiercely you protect your own tiny ecosystem.
We all want more. The role that looks perfect from the outside. The relationship that lives in our imagination. The city, the team, the “if only I had that, everything would click” fantasy. And wanting more is fine, healthy, even. As long as you do not let craving for what you don’t have, or fear of what you might lose, stop you from showing up today.
So here is my Thanksgiving take… Protect your peace by:
- Investing in your SKILLS (and yourself)
- Nurturing your NETWORK
- Choosing ACTIVITIES that grow you
- Feeding your KNOWLEDGE
- Respecting your body.
The world is loud. Your job is to keep showing up anyway.
